The Comforting Thing I Learned About God’s Provision
I was 15. I went three days without food. I wanted to die, wanted to walk in front of a car, just have it be over. Depriving myself of food was just one more way for me to bury the pain. Heck, I’d tried guys, drugs, booze. None of those worked. Neither did...
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The Surprising Benefit That Can Come From Experiencing Trauma
The field of psychology used to focus solely on the pathologies of people. In other words, it focused on what makes people depressed, anxious, and unhappy. But the last few decades brought a much needed addition to the field: Positive Psychology. Positive Psychology...
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Your Inner Happy
I've always used Instagram for my own pleasure. If you look, you'll see I have lots of posts with food, drink, and the people I love. However, I realized I was missing a huge opportunity to share my counseling, writing, and speaking material over there. I didn't...
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Healing the Wounded Heart of Sexual Abuse
Recently a Facebook Friend was talking about sexual abuse. I said, "People should read Dan Allender's new book Healing the Wounded Heart. Then she would know her feelings are universal amoung sexual abuse survivors." If you have been sexually abused, or if you...
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A Mother’s Reckoning by Sue Klebold (a book review)
I just finished reading Sue Klebold's book A Mother's Reckoning. *All proceeds from the book go towards mental health. I live here in Littleton and knew people involved in the tragedy. I attend the church that planted 15 trees (including two for Dylan and Eric). I...
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Why Attachment Is The Most Crucial Aspect In Relationships
(The following is an excerpt from my book Renewed: Finding Your Inner Happy in an Overwhelmed World) In 1995 the Fort Worth Star-Telegram assigned journalist Tim Madigan the task of writing about children’s television icon Fred Rogers (Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood)....
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The Books I Read The Second Half Of 2015
Can you believe 2015 has two days left in it? I didn't get as many books read as I usually do because we were so busy traveling and remodeling. However, I got to read a wide variety of books and I think you'd enjoy most of them. For each book listed, I cut and pasted...
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What We Do With These Videos Reveals Our Character
Something horrible is happening in our country. It's been happening for a long time, but legally, since 1973. In Roe v. Wade the United States Supreme Court made a landmark decision saying it was acceptable and legal for a woman to abort her baby. That's when...
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A Candid Discussion About Sexual Abuse In Light Of The Duggar Story
In light of the Josh Duggar story I want to have a candid discussion about sexual abuse. I don't know all the details of the case and the Duggar's are not my focus here. Childhood Sexual Abuse is epidemic. Dare I say ubiquitous? Statistics say one in three women,...
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Manny Pacquiao – No Stranger to Suffering
If you're like me, and you don't follow boxing, you might be asking who is Manny Pacquiao? I read about him in today's Wall Street Journal (see link below). He has a big boxing match coming up this weekend. The majority of sports fans know who he is but for those of...
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